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Working Parents and Sick Kids
Compiled from WMOMS discussions by Philippa H.
Disclaimer: Some of this advice worked for some people some of the time. Neither they, WMOMS nor Working Moms Refuge take responsibility for its applicability to your family. Please discuss any questions with your own network of professionals, friends and family first. Table of Contents:
Q: How much time do you lose from work having to stay home with a sick child? A. Most parents find that a great deal of time is missed from work during a child's first year of life (usually more than a week per child). However, as the child grows up, the amount of work missed usually decreases substantially. Q: When a child is sick, which parent stays home? A: One parent can stay home for the entire day while the other parent works. This is usually based on workload/activity. When it is impossible for one parent to take the entire day off from work, parents can provide "tag-team" care for the sick child. This option usually involves one parent staying home in the morning and going to work in the afternoon, possibly working later into the evening. The other parent will work mornings, leaving earlier in the morning so as to accomplish as much work as possible. Some parents find this second option to be inconvenient and will try to use the first option whenever possible. To avoid situations where it is impossible for one parent to miss a full day of work,parents will often attempt to coordinate their schedules so that important projects/meetings are not scheduled on the same day. Q: If neither parent can stay home with a sick child, what other options are available? A: Here are several options:
Q: When a parent stays home with a sick child, how is the absenteeism explained to the employer? A. Many parents use paid sick/vacation days when they have to take time off to care for a sick child. Although many parents take this time off as "personal" time, some companies request that employees differentiate between "personal sick time" and time taken to care for a sick child. Once a parent's paid time has been exhausted, many parents find that they have to make up for time missed in other ways (i.e. come to work earlier or stay later, work weekends or take shortened lunch breaks). Q: What do single parents do in the same situation? A. Many single parents use Nanny's/in-home child care for exactly this reason. However, when the Nanny is sick, back up childcare must be found. In this situation some options are:
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