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Assists to 3-Point ShotsTable of Contents
While the coach normally will hand these out at the first practice, it's a good idea to bring extra copies to each game. Schedules invariably get lost or misplaced. It's a good idea to combine the drink and refreshment list with the schedule.
Remember that in most leagues the coaches are volunteers. They make a commitment to the sport and players between the work, family and other responsibilities. While you may be tempted to buy a gift certificate to the local sporting goods store, the coach might enjoy a diversion from basketball and sports, particularly if the season did not live up to expectations. Passes to the movie theater or a gift certificate to a local restaurant are worth considering.
In many cases, parents are asked to provide a team snack/drink following at least one game during the season. Before purchasing the food and drink consider the nutritional value. Frosted cookies, chocolate milk and sugar-ladened sweets don't offer much in the way of replenishment for dehydrated and thirsty athletes. Cut up oranges or other fresh fruit are ideal along with 100 percent fruit juice or cold water. Don't, don't, don't offer Munchkins or any snack to the players during the game or between periods.
Unfortunately, some parents do not share enjoyment of basketball that their children do. Their competitiveness and will to win can become too strong and even detrimental. Screaming at and questioning the commitment of a four- or five-year-old athlete is not productive. These parents need to be reminded gently that it is "only a game." The score, particularly where very young athletes are concerned, is not important. As the players become more familiar and comfortable with the game, so do the parents. Before long, a parent is yelling out at the players on the field, competing with the coach's direction and requests. Again, they should be reminded to let the coach do the coaching and to offer words of encouragement to the players. On a more positive note, many proud parents take pictures during the games. Encourage these photographers to periodically take pictures of the other kids and offer copies to the other parents.
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